Let me put it this way. You are always moving in a direction in your relationships. Either you decide–deliberately, consciously–where you want them to go or they will move on their own, down the default path. Not choosing is why a person ends up in messes. The default route is invariably rutted and full of potholes. It’s ever so much easier when a man consciously choose the big picture of where he is headed with his wife, his kids, his business colleagues–all of them.
Let me put it this way. You are always moving in a direction in your relationships. Either you decide–deliberately, consciously–where you want them to go or they will move on their own, down the default path. Not choosing is why a person ends up in messes. The default route is invariably rutted and full of potholes. It’s ever so much easier when a man consciously choose the big picture of where he is headed with his wife, his kids, his business colleagues–all of them.